Thứ Tư, 9 tháng 12, 2015

Thai Buddhist Blessing

  In the past, even numbers of monks such as four or eight were invited. However, nowadays Thai people believe that number nine is a lucky number. Accordingly, nine monks are usually invited, and with one Buddha image at the ceremony this comes to ten, thus making even number.

The couple also invited nine monks to their ceremony. First, the bride and groom will light 2 candles on the altar Buddha.

Groom’s mother will put Mongkol on the head of the bride, and similar bride’s mother will put Mongkol on the head of the groom with meaning mount their lifes together.
Mongkol was braid by thread, are the monks mantras before the wedding happening.

The monks will bring auspicious and mercy for the young couple by recite the Pali. A thread is connected to the monk or a water bottle with auspicious idea will be transmitted to the thread or water bottle to the young couple. Blessing ritual of Thai culture and water will drip candle wax will be done in front of the statue. Mark on forehead groom is made up of monks thumb still on the bride's forehead is created by pieces of candles by the customs of Thailand is Thai monks are not allowed to touch women.




After the chant finished, the wedding couple and their relatives offered food to the monks. Nobody else is permitted to eat until the monks have finished their meal. Then the monks left the ceremony.
The ceremony took place on the background music Khim - a traditional Thai musical instruments, sound as melodious zither of Vietnam.


THAI WEDDING ATTIRE

 Wedding attire will vary significantly depending on the region of Thailand. Both type  of costume and color will be different or hold a changing significance depending on the ares too. Common colors are white or creamy and the only exception is using the color black, as it is considered to be bad luck. Traditionally, a bride's dress is made of silk or handwoven cotton, which are natural fabrics that help keep the wearer cool in warmer weather. 



However, since it is the tradition of Thai wedding dresses to be influenced by modern trends, most designs or fabrics used are generally accepted. Today, exquiste wedding attires can be made of silk. They look stunningly magnificent in the bellow picture.


Generally, the groom wears a long-sleeved, loose fitting shirt of cotton or a more luxury fabric. His shirt may have embellishments or embroidery and he will wear an ornate sash across his body from his left shoulder. This is usually decorated with relevant traditional symbols and he may have a corsage of flowers pinned to it. The groom's trousers reflect region or personal taste! In some areas they will be just like long, loose linen trousers, whilst in other regions they seem more Arabic in style and fabric and may be approximately 3/4 or calf-length.


Thai brides will wear a costume which traditionally “matches” the groom’s in some way, for example her dress may be  the same color as his sash. Traditional dresses include two-piece costumes of a top and wrap around skirt, which can be full-length or ankle length. The bride will wear a headdress and either carry or wear flowers.


Looking at below pictures, Thai wedding attires are not only elegant but versatile as well. If you are scheduled for a Thai wedding, do not forget considering a Thai wedding costume





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Chủ Nhật, 6 tháng 12, 2015

3. Wedding between three men
At present, Gay wedding is prevalent in some countries, especially in Thailand which is renowned for legal marriage of homonsexual couples. Notwithstanding, wedding between three men is only in Thailand. The wedding is really amazing so one can not help but will be astonished.
The following picture of three men taken in Uthaithani county, Thailand on the fourteenth of February, 2015.

Three men whose name is Joke (29 years old), Bell ( 21 year old), Art (26 year old). At first, Jok and Art are a couple, subsequently they encountered at University. After long time, they started to intimate relationship between three people and set their heart on a real matrimony. 


They decide to celebrate publicly on Valentine Day to mark special memory of their wedding. This wedding is still legally accepted in Thailand. However, Joke, Bell and Art are blissfully happy in their wedding. 


The wedding ceremony took place in accordance with Buddhist ritual. They donned wedding attire and exchange wedding rings in romantic atmosphere. They share that is the most blissful day in their life  



It extremely surprises me much. I just wonder how their life after wedding. Hope that they will have a lifelong and happy  marriage.



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2.Wedding held in coffin: 
It sounds like scary!!
While many couple believe that wedding is a wonderful moment when couple commence to live a new and happy life together. However, recently many Thai couple come up with a unique idea that is holding their wedding in a coffin. They believe this wedding represent a good luck, a lifelong marriage, an eternal love.
On the fourteenth of February, 2015. There 10 weddings celebrated in a pagoda in suburban Bangkok. The picture below is one of them.

From the picture, During this special wedding, Monks will conduct the ceremony like ritual in a traditional funeral. Both the bride and the groom lie in a pink coffin with a bunch of flowers in front of their chest, and make a vow "will not be separated".


Then Monks will cover the coffin with a white large cloth and end up with blessing the young couple's marriage, finally uncover the cloth. This considered as a good start for the young couple's matrimony.


Meaning: It is believed that wedding held in the coffin represents eternal love. They will lead a permanent and happy matrimony in the whole life. this ritual concurrently remind young couples of Buddhist philosophy that "Nothing lasts forever" so the newly-weds need to respect and cherish each other. 




source:http://afamily.vn/chuyen-la/doc-dao-nhung-dam-cuoi-duoc-to-chuc-trong-quan-tai-o-thai-lan-2015021504490913.chn

1.Heterosexual twins: 
 According to Thai superstition, heterosexual twins are not a good luck. They assume that in previous incarnation. They were prevented to be together; therefore, if The God responds to their prayers, the couple will become heterosexual in the next incarnation. That is why parents hold a wedding for their twin children. 

To your most surprise, the bride and the groom in above picture are not only just 3 years old but they are actually siblings as well. On the 21th of November, 2015. Their parents make a big splash for their twin children's wedding. This wedding ceremony took place in accordance with traditional ritual. This little bride brought  wedding presents comprising cash, jewelry which worth up to 3 billion baht( 2 billion VND) to propose his twin sister.
The little couple exchange the wedding ring and kiss each other  in front of family's and relative's presence 

The parents are afraid that if they do not do like that, the spirits will  punish children or the children may die before they become mature; therefore, the wedding is considered as a blessing with a message which is sent to the God that both children still love each other and hope that they will lead a happy and healthy life. After the wedding, both children resume their daily life.
Here is some photos of little cute couple.



How adorable they are in above photos. And of course after the wedding, this little couple will return their daily life as usual.




Thứ Ba, 24 tháng 11, 2015

Thai Country

 Thailand is one of the world’s most beautiful countries and known worldwide as the 'Land of Smiles’. The country's diverse natural landscapes; rich history and Buddhist culture; inspiring buildings, both ancient and modern; world famous cuisine; and warm, hospitable people make Thailand one of the world’s most popular destinations. Let's take a look at the life of the Thai people and find the similarities and differences with other Southeast Asian nations.
       Known as The Golden Kingdom, you can meet Buddha statues everywhere.

Thai greeting, the smile is an important symbol of refinement in Thai culture.



The Songkran festival.


The Loi Krathong festival.



Candle Paradise Float.

And there are many interesting things about Thailand waiting for you to discover!

Thứ Ba, 10 tháng 11, 2015

The End

TRADITIONAL FUNERAL IN THAILAND

Funerals in Thailand are regarded as important events because they represent rebirth and the passage from one existence to another.

งานศพ or "GNAN SOP" means ceremony for deceased persons. A feast is organised to honor the deceased person. The ceremony date is scheduled by monks.
When somebody dies, the corpse is kept 7 days in the house before the cremation. During six evenings, monks come and pray. On the coffin, light garlands and a picture of the deceased person can be found. For poorer people, the dead body can be cremated between 3 to 7 days. The formalin used to reduce body decomposition is expensive for poor people.Funeral
Funeral
Guests come, often dressed with dark clothes and sometimes a white shirt. Everybody greet each other. Waiters offer water or coke. From the first to the sixth day, monks come every evening around 7 p.m. On the seventh day cremation happens during the afternoon. Usually 4 monks are coming during the evening prayers. But number can vary depending on the status and rank of the deceased person. Then they summon incantations in Pali language during 30 minutes. When prayers are over, a car brings the monks back to their temple.


Carrying coffin to the Buddhist templeCarrying coffin to the Buddhist temple
Carrying coffin to the Buddhist templeCarrying coffin to the Buddhist temple


Food is then offered to every guest. Everybody is chatting. Even during the monks prayers, some people are still chatting. Atmosphere is not so sad, there are no loud tears. Family, relations, neighbours and even unknown people to the family can assist to those prayers. Sometimes an old and famous monk is present but doesn't take part in the ceremony. His presence indicates that the deceased person had a high rank.
Carrying coffin to the Buddhist templeOn the seventh day, in traditional ceremonies, a funeral procession is organized. First monks go ahead, then the men and the women. The men carry the coffin. Nowadays the coffin is often directly transported by car to the temple.
Carrying coffin to the Buddhist temple
Guests are then arriving to the temple. Everybody is giving gifts, money for the family of the deceased person.
On the contrary of foreign countries, funeral ceremony is not a sad event. Everybody talk. For Buddhist people, death is only a passage to next life. Corpse is burned to allow the spirit to escape.Buddhist coffin
Buddhist coffin
In some families, a book is printed and given during the funeral ceremony. This book contains the story of the deceased person, poems, some personal writing. This custom is high valued in Buddhism. The aim is to spread wisdom and knowledge to other persons. In Bangkok, there is even a small museum in "WAT BONIWET", which contains many funeral books. Since a few years, there is a bad business. Some people go to funeral, even if they don't know the deceased person only to get the book and to sell it on specialised market.
funeralFor important funeral, the family might rent some Traditional Thai orchestra. Musicians are playing gamelan, Thai xylophones...
Buddhist coffin
One problem with dead persons with no relatives in Thailand is what to do with the unclaimed bodies. When bodies are unclaimed, nobody pays to cremate the corpses. Cremation of dead bodies is one of major aspect of Buddhism, it allows the soul to quit the body and to go to hell or heaven in order to wait to next reincarnation. In Thailand there are some charitable organisations that take the unclaimed bodies and bury them in their private cemetery. Each year many corpses are exhumed, monks are invited and a big burning ceremony is organised. In 1998, in one ceremony 40000 corpses were cremated. With economic recession, those foundations don't have enough money to buy more land in order to expand the location where bodies are buried. Some hospitals are full of unclaimed bodies and do not know what to do with them, so they warn about using garbage incinerator!
Funeral
Funeral
During the ceremony, all guests have hand palms closed doing the Thai greeting ("WAI" - ไหว้) gesture and "WAI" several times during the monks prayers. Monks prayers are about the impermanence of life (พิธีสวดพระอภิธรรม - pray for funeral).
The corpse is burnt inside the temple in a big and tall chimney (พิธีฌาปนกิจ - cremation). For up-country temples, which do not have a special building with an oven, the corpse is burnt outdoors. That can lead to horrible scenes when the coffin explodes due to the fire and the corpse appears like a living dead. That is why in old days, pregnant women were not allowed to see outdoor cremations. Such a scene could have frightened them and cause problems to the baby.Cremation
Cremation
For big funerals involving influential and powerful families, up to 1000 persons can attend.
CrematoriumWhen paying homage to the deceased person, one makes the Thai greeting or "WAI" (ไหว้) with one incense stick only. One stick is used for deceased person and three sticks are used for Buddha. The crematorium is also called funeral pyre (เมรุตั้งศพ).
Crematorium
One hundred days after the death, a Buddhist ceremony is done in order to perform final prayers. It is called ทำบุญ 100 วัน or"THAM BUN 100 WAN". Monks are invited (ทำบุญเลี้ยงพระ) to perform prayers. สังฆทาน or "SANG KHATHAN" are offered to Buddhist monks. Envelopes with banknotes are also given. It include miscellaneous items such as washing powder, medicine, monks clothes, fruit juice, candles, matches, soap, umbrella, sandals, lights, milk, tins, tooth paste and brush, water, toilet paper and so on... Ceremony สาดน้ำ or "SAT NAM" is also performed. It is the action of pouring holy water on the floor. To give strength and good blessing to spirits, Thai people pour water on the floor to honour the dead. It helps them to shorten the time to wait for next life.
In the past, some rich families may hired an outdoor cinema (หนังกลางแปลง) to play movies every night until the cremation. In exceptional cases, movies projection would happen during 100 days in order to reach this symbolic date (ทำบุญ 100 วัน).
งานศพ or "GNAN SOP" means ceremony for deceased persons. A feast is organised to honor the deceased person. The ceremony date is scheduled by monks.
For poor people, the dead body is cremated between 3 to 7 days. For rich people, the dead body is placed in a morgue between 3 to 7 days after the death. The body is left to become dry 100 days. It can be up to 6 months for a Prince and one year for a King.Funeral
Funeral
Before cremating a body, a last rite is performed. The dead body's face is washed with the juice of a green coconut. This water is supposed to purify the deceased.
FuneralFuneral don't happen on Friday ("Wan Suk" - วันศุกร์) as "Suk" means happiness in Thai language.
Funeral
On the cremation day, the coffin is carried from the home to the Buddhist temple. At the head of the funeral cortege, there are monks and the deceased's son or grand-son who become temporary monks for this funest occasion. They hold a sacred thread which is attached to the coffin.
One son is holding his father's portrait. Monks are following him holding sacred threads. They walk three times around the funeral pyre.Funeral
Funeral
The undertaker puts a coin inside the mouth of the deceased. This coin is called เงินปากผี. It is used to pay fees during his long journey.
FuneralThe undertaker binds the deceased neck, wrist and ankles with sacred thread. The neck represent the burden of having children, the wrist represent the link with his wife and the ankles represent the material goods that the deceased has tried to get during his whole life.
Funeral
Monks walk three times with the coffin around the funeral pyre. These three times walk are linked to Buddhist beliefs, i.e. life impermanence, the life suffering, the life vaccuum.
The men shall carry the coffin three times around the funeral pyre.Funeral
Funeral
Before the cremation ceremony, guests lay down flowers, incense sticks and candles in front of the coffin.
CremationWhen the body is cremated, the soul (วิญญาณ) is released.
Cremation
After cremation, remaining ashes are buried in the cemetary for poor people. For rich people, ashes are stored in a cinerary urn (โกศ) kept at home or inside small niches in temple walls or under a small pagoda.
The real cremation is done only with close relatives as it can be a long process. Guests can leave earlier.Cremation
Cremation
People were especially afraid of ghosts during wakes. Nowadays this is less true. Sometimes people want monks to leave as soon as the funeral rites are over so that they can drink and gamble!
งานศพ or "GNAN SOP" means ceremony for deceased persons. A feast is organised to honor the deceased person. The ceremony date is scheduled by monks.
Once the body has been cremated and ashes stored in a small pagoda, regular ceremonies including giving food to deceased relative do happen.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetaryFood is offered in front of the small pagoda ("CHEDI" - เจดีย์) where bones and ashes are kept.
Buddhist cemetary
Many pagoda are present in this cemetary located inside the compound of the Buddhist temple.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetaryThe cemetary includes Buddhist pagodas but also Chinese type small buildings to store ashes.
Buddhist cemetary
Despite being inside the Buddhist temple compound, the cemetary is separated through a wall.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist templeSuch ceremonies can be called "SAK BANG SUKUL" (ชักบังสุกุล) and do happen around Songkran period.
Buddhist temple
Water is also poured on the soil to give good deeds to dead people.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetaryCeremony is over and then food is left behind.
Buddhist cemetary
Before leaving, Thai people sometimes warn the caretaker of the temple or the cemetery.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetaryPoor people from the neighbourhood come to get the food. It is good deed towards dead people and good deed towards poor people.
Buddhist cemetary
Offerings include food (steamed rice, chicken, shrimps, fruits, dessert such as mango sticky rice, spicy sauce, fish, vegetables...), flowers and lit incense sticks.Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetary
Buddhist cemetaryBuddhist cemetaries are always peaceful but Thai people avoid them at nighttimes due to spirits beliefs.
Buddhist cemetary